About the Book
Our Culture and Traditions taught us to “tough” it out* and not wash our linen outside ” and not talking about ” bedroom ” issues outside the household. Because of these beliefs many people suffer in silence and end up with Scarcity Mentality and becoming Bully Victims. In our Culture we look for who has bewitched us, cursed us. We asked ourselves why we are so bad luck. Unfortunately we always look for the wrong causes which will not allow us to to find the right cause. Love comes from within. Love will never come to you until you find out what destroys your Love. If you are coming from a childhood without inner love,you will not receive the love you want.
About the Author
Kapadhi started her journey of educating and Coaching soon after Namibia Independence.
She trained Health professionals. She is an Occupational Nurse, Health Instructor, Relationships Coach, and a Rapid Transformational Professional.
She has more than twenty years s experience in Counseling and Coaching. She is a motivational speaker.
Kapadhi appears on NBC Television program “Tupopyeni” a program that tackles social issues. She also appears in Kati FM and Omulunga Radio on the program Relationships Parliament.
In 2019, Kapadhi authored the ” Oshiwambo” Relationship Series which was referred by many as marriage changing. She is trained as a Rapid Transformational Practitioner with the world’s best Therapist Marisa Peer, whose unique proven program uses Hypnotherapy which is very effective, refreshing, and life-changing.
Qn 1: Can you tell us more about your book What is it about?
The Book is called The Bully: Learn How to change scarcity Mentality in our Relationships. We have unresolved issues from our childhood. Many of us has been Bullied by the people who raised us up. We are victims of false beliefs ,and therefore we become victims in our Relationships. Being in Relationships with a Bully can be distressing, very stressful, but the hardest part is to recognize you are.. Unresolved issues from our childhood bullying created blockage that stop us from experiencing true love, therefore we keep failing in our Relationships. Our African cultures taught us to tough it out meaning to suppress our emotions, therefore many suffering in silence and end up being Bully victims in their Relationships. Reading this book you will be able to identify your childhood challenges and beliefs and make an effort to to understand them, correct them and forgive the past and embrace the future.
The content of this book is will change your false beliefs which allows you to receive the love you want. This book convinces those in our culture who fear to seek Psychological help due to the fact that they will be labeled as weak and mentally unstable. It contains my Relationship journey as a Coach and also real life stories of those who have been physically and emotionally bullied. By reading these stories, you will be encouraged to seek professional help which assist you to LET GO and permanently free you from self destructive thoughts and behaviors. The Bully is written in a style with case stories that allows you to put yourself in other people s shoes. As you read this case stories you will understand how our childhood really effect our Relationships.
This book introduces Transformational Therapy and Hypnotherapy as tools we use to uncover the root cause of your problems and issues which might be caused by different challenges that face our society. Some of the stories are quite emotional and touching. Your life partners are a must-read. This book is written in a Namibian Society in mind. This book will enlighten you on how our childhood wounds and hurts affect our daily lives. Since everyone deserves to love and to be loved, this book is a Must to read.
Qn 2: Who do you think would be interested in this book, is it directed at any particular market?
Those who keep attracting bad Relationships and seem not to find the right person.
Those who keep involved in destructive behaviors such as Alcohol abuse, Gambling, or using drugs. Those who are in a Bulling environment where they feel suffocated or controlled. This book is a product of what I have learned in Rapid Transformational Therapy in search of my own personal life challenges.
Qn 3: Out of all the books in the world, and all the authors, which are your favorite and why?
Marisa Peer. She is my Therapist, my mentor, and my role model. Her way of presenting issues are simple and accurate. Her method is mind-blowing.
Qn 4: What guidance would you offer to someone new, or trying to enhance their writing?
I’m also a new author, but I just want to say writing a book, one needs passion and the willingness to do it. Once you start, just keep going, because once you stop you lose the track. Try to finish a chapter on the same day to keep the ideas together. Even when you don’t want to write that day my advice is that just DO IT.
Qn 5: Where can our readers find out more about you, do you have a website, or a way to be contacted?
The website is kapadhithelifecoach.dop.store
Contact number +264 (0)818656504
Facebook page KapadhiThe Life Coach