About the Book
Most often, when parents divorce, they fail to involve the kids in the process. This is because they think children will adapt to the changes naturally. But, no, it is not the case. As a result, children turn to suffer more the consequences of their Parents’ divorce. Parents should always make sure to explain the reason(s) for their separation and let their children know “It Is Not Their Fault.”
This is usually a difficult conversation to have. This book is meant to walk kids through the process, help them understand the process and ways to cope. Written by an educator who was once that confused child with so many unanswered questions. She continues to see children suffer as a result of their parent’s separation.
About the Author
Fortune has been an early childhood educator since 2013. Fortune knows firsthand how overwhelming and frustrating childhood can be if children are not offered the right resources during stressful moments such as divorce, death in the family, moving, etc.
Fortune believes every child has the right to a happy, fun, and loving childhood because childhood experiences can either break or mold a person.
Fortune experienced the separation of her parents at the tender age of about 8. It took her about two decades to realize that the way she acts, in general, is directly related to the trauma she went through as a child.
As an educator, Fortune continues to see children suffer the consequences of adults’ actions. Fortune has started a conversation to bring awareness of early childhood importance and how parents can help their children during stressful moments such as divorce.
Qn 1: Can you tell us more about your book What is it about?
I believe every child has the right to a happy, fun, and loving childhood because childhood experiences can either break or mold a person.
I experienced the separation of my parents at the tender age of about 8. It took her about two decades to realize that the way I act, in general, is directly related to the trauma I went through as a child.
I have been an early childhood educator since 2013, and I know firsthand how overwhelming and frustrating childhood can be if children are not offered the right resources during stressful moments such as divorce, death in the family, moving, etc.
I have seen many children suffer due to their parents’ separation, but I will never forget this particular child. I will call him child D. D was in my class some years ago. He was almost 5. It was Monday morning, and the theme of the week was family. After our usual morning routine, it was time for our daily activity. I told the kids we were going to talk about our families. I spoke to them about my family, and they all took turns talking about theirs. After the presentation, I asked them to draw the members of their families. Behold, while I was looking at the kids drawing and commenting on them for their effort, I came across D’s paper. On one side of the drawing was a man laughing, and on the other side was a woman crying with a baby in her hands. When I asked D about the picture, he told me the man was his dad, and the woman was his mom carrying his little sister. He said his mom was sad and that he was also sad because of that. I was devastated. I knew things were not well at home, but I did not think it was that bad. I wished I could take him home to a fun-loving and environment. He was just a child and needed to be in a safe, happy environment. D’s dad left his mom for another woman but kept bugging his mom. I saw myself in this little boy. He took me to my childhood, and I could not hold the tears back. I have seen many children who suffer due to their parents’ separation, but this particular case touched me personally.
This book is meant to walk kids through the process, help them understand the process and ways to cope. Written by an educator who was once that confused child with so many unanswered questions. She continues to see children suffer as a result of their parent’s separation.
Qn 2: Who do you think would be interested in this book, is it directed at any particular market?
Divorced parents with young children or couples with young children who are planning to get a get divorce.
Qn 3: Out of all the books in the world, and all the authors, which are your favourite and why?
Eric Carle
His books are engaging, curious, and filled with subtle lessons that help kids in their day-to-day life.
Qn 4: What guidance would you offer to someone new, or trying to enhance their writing?
Write out of your heart. Be sincere with your audience.
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