Mixed Girl

About the Author

Victoria Cortez is a survivor, a mother, a wife, and an advocate for those who, like her, have navigated the complexities of identity and belonging. Her memoir, Mixed Girl – How She Got So Weird, is a testament to her resilience and her unwavering belief in the power of the human spirit to overcome adversity.

But Victoria’s story doesn’t end with the final page of her book. She’s also the heart and soul of “All Good Things N More Brand,” a platform dedicated to empowering families to thrive.

Here’s a glimpse into what makes Victoria tick:

Mom of 7: Yes, you read that right! Victoria and her husband, Junior, have built a beautiful and boisterous family of seven children. She navigates the joys and challenges of parenthood with grace, humor, and a deep understanding of the complexities that come with blending cultures and personalities.

Mental Health Advocate: Victoria’s personal journey with anxiety, depression, and addiction has fueled her passion for mental health advocacy. She believes in breaking down stigmas, fostering open conversations, and empowering families to prioritize their well-being.

Author and Educator: Victoria is dedicated to sharing her knowledge and experiences to help others. Her memoir, Mixed Girl – How She Got So Weird, offers a raw and honest look at her journey of self-discovery, and her upcoming projects with “All Good Things N More Brand” will provide valuable resources and support for families navigating similar challenges.

Victoria’s unique blend of vulnerability, strength, and unwavering hope makes her a relatable and inspiring voice for anyone who has ever felt lost or alone.

Qn 1: Can you tell us more about your book What is it about?

That’s a great question! I think what makes “Mixed Girl – How She Got So Weird” unique is its multifaceted approach to storytelling. It’s more than just a memoir about my life; it’s an exploration of universal themes that many people can relate to, regardless of their background.

For example, the book delves into the nuances of identity, particularly for those who identify as mixed-race. It explores the internal conflict of not fitting neatly into any one box, the code-switching many of us do to try to belong, and the constant search for a place where we feel truly seen and accepted. I think this is something a lot of people can connect with, even if they don’t share the same racial background.

The book also doesn’t shy away from the harsh realities of addiction. It portrays the grip it can have on a person’s life, the devastating consequences that can follow, and the long, difficult journey of recovery. But it also offers a message of hope, showing that it is possible to break free from addiction and create a better life.

At its core, “Mixed Girl” is a story about family, resilience, and the transformative power of love and forgiveness. It’s about finding your voice, embracing your true self, and never giving up on the possibility of a brighter future. I believe these are themes that resonate with everyone, regardless of their personal experiences.

Qn 2: Who do you think would be interested in this book, is it directed at any particular market?

I believe this book has the potential to resonate with a wide range of readers, but there are definitely a few key audiences who might be particularly interested:

Young adults and adults who identify as mixed-race: This book offers a raw and honest look at the challenges and triumphs of navigating a mixed-race identity in a society that often pressures individuals to fit into predefined categories. It can be a source of validation and inspiration for those who have struggled with similar experiences.

Individuals who have struggled with addiction or have loved ones who have: The book’s unflinching portrayal of addiction and recovery can offer hope and understanding to those who have been affected by this disease. It can also be a valuable resource for family members and friends who are seeking to support their loved ones.

Mothers, particularly single mothers: The book celebrates the strength and resilience of mothers, especially those who are raising children on their own. It can be a source of encouragement and empowerment for single mothers who are navigating the challenges of parenthood.

Anyone who has experienced trauma or adversity: The book’s message of hope and healing can resonate with anyone who has faced difficult challenges in their life. It’s a reminder that even in the darkest of times, we have the strength to overcome adversity and create a better future.

Readers interested in memoirs and personal stories: Ultimately, this book is a compelling story of self-discovery and transformation. It will appeal to readers who enjoy memoirs that offer raw honesty, vulnerability, and a message of hope.

While these are some of the key audiences, I believe that anyone who has ever felt like an outsider, struggled with their identity, or faced difficult challenges in their life can find something to connect with in this book. It’s a story about the human experience, about finding your place in the world, and about the enduring power of the human spirit.

Qn 3: Out of all the books in the world, and all the authors, which are your favourite and why?

That’s a tough one! There are so many incredible books and authors out there that have inspired me. But if I had to narrow it down, here are a few that stand out:

Maya Angelou’s “I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings”: This book was a revelation to me when I first read it. Angelou’s raw and honest portrayal of her childhood experiences, particularly her struggles with racism and sexual abuse, deeply moved me. Her ability to transform pain into poetry is breathtaking, and her story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.

J.D. Salinger’s “The Catcher in the Rye”: I was drawn to Holden Caulfield’s rebellious spirit and his search for authenticity in a world that often feels phony. Salinger’s writing perfectly captures the angst and confusion of adolescence, and his exploration of themes like alienation and belonging resonated with me deeply.

Isabel Allende’s “The House of the Spirits”: This multigenerational saga is a masterpiece of magical realism. Allende’s lyrical prose and her vivid portrayal of Chilean history and culture captivated me. The strong female characters and their enduring bonds in the face of adversity left a lasting impression on me.

Toni Morrison’s “Beloved”: This powerful novel confronts the legacy of slavery and its impact on the lives of African Americans. Morrison’s masterful use of language and imagery creates a haunting and unforgettable reading experience. Her exploration of themes like memory, trauma, and the enduring power of love is both profound and deeply moving.

These are just a few of the many books and authors that have shaped my own writing and my understanding of the world. I’m constantly inspired by the power of storytelling to connect us, to challenge us, and to help us make sense of our own experiences.

Qn 4: What guidance would you offer to someone new, or trying to enhance their writing?

Writing is a journey, not a destination. It’s about constantly learning, growing, and experimenting. Here’s some guidance I’d offer to someone who is new to writing or trying to enhance their craft:

Write from the heart: The most powerful writing comes from a place of authenticity. Don’t be afraid to tap into your own experiences, emotions, and perspectives. Share your unique voice with the world.

Find your tribe: Connect with other writers, join writing groups, and seek out mentors. Surround yourself with people who support your passion and challenge you to grow.

Embrace imperfection: Don’t let the pursuit of perfection hold you back. Writing is a messy process, and it’s okay to make mistakes. Embrace the imperfections and allow yourself to learn and grow along the way.

Read widely: Immerse yourself in the works of other writers. Pay attention to their craft, their style, and their use of language. Read books that inspire you, books that challenge you, and books that make you think differently.

Take risks: Don’t be afraid to experiment with different genres, styles, and formats. Step outside your comfort zone and try something new. You might surprise yourself with what you discover.

Write regularly: Make writing a habit, even if it’s just for a few minutes each day. The more you write, the better you’ll become.

Seek feedback: Share your work with trusted friends, mentors, or writing groups. Ask for constructive criticism and be open to suggestions. Feedback can help you identify areas for improvement and refine your craft.

Believe in yourself: Writing can be a vulnerable process, and it’s easy to get discouraged. But believe in your voice and your ability to tell your story. Keep writing, keep learning, and keep growing.

And most importantly, remember that writing is a gift. It’s a way to connect with others, to share your experiences, and to make a difference in the world. So embrace your passion, take risks, and let your voice be heard.

Qn 5: Where can our readers find out more about you, do you have a website, or a way to be contacted?

I’m so glad you’re interested in connecting! You can find more information about me and my work on the “All Good Things N More” website at allgoodthingsnmore.com. This is where I share my passion for helping families thrive, with resources on parenting, homeschooling, and mental health.

I’m also active on social media, especially on Instagram @allgoodthingsnmore. I love connecting with readers and fellow parents there, so please don’t hesitate to reach out!

And for those who are curious about the “All Good Things N More,” it’s really an extension of my own journey and passions. As a mom of seven, a homeschooling parent, and a mental health advocate, I wanted to create a space where families could find support, encouragement, and practical resources to navigate the ups and downs of life.

Whether you have questions about the book, want to learn more about homeschooling or mental wellness, or just want to share your own experiences, I’m always happy to connect. Join the “All Good Things N More” family, and let’s learn and grow together!

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